Verbesserung würde mir sehr weiterhelfen!

[Lala007]

Hallo zusammen,
wir haben einen anonymen Brief von einem Mann der glücklich vereiratet ist. Jetzt erfährt er, dass ihr erstes Kind nicht von ihm ist. Er weiß nicht was er tun soll und wir sollen Dr. Sommer spielen.
I hope the text is not too long. And I am not sure, that retorical questions exist in english.
Thank you very much for help.


Dear Devasted,
thanks for writing me, it is brave and worthy of admiration to ask me or somebody else for help. First of all you have to gasp (about) your feelings. Do you love this woman? You married her, but do you still loving her?
Another very important question you have to ask for is if you still can trust in her?! Confidence is an important thing in a relationship. Or have I to say it is the important thing ever! If you cannot depend on your partner there cannot exist a real relationship. It is the foundation of every human relation.
You have to look for the answers on your own, but if you answer one of them with no, you have to decide if you can give her a second chance or not.
Another important point you have to think about is the child. Do you want to be a father for him? If you give your wife a second chance, this child will have a family and importantly a father. But only if you could love it your hole life. I think you are a strong person and you can manage to do this. But never do the same mistake like your wife. This child is entitled to grow up in truth. Be fair to this child whatever you decide. Whatever you will do, do it with al your heart. Believe in you, you will do the right decision.
Abby

[Duckduck (Contributor)]

Hallo zusammen,
wir haben einen anonymen Brief von einem Mann, der glücklich vereiratet ist. Jetzt erfährt er, dass ihr erstes Kind nicht von ihm ist. Er weiß nicht, was er tun soll und wir sollen Dr. Sommer spielen.
I hope the text is not too long. And I am not sure, whether rhetorical questions exist in English. Oh yes, they do!
Thank you very much for your help.


Dear Devastated,
thanks for writing to me, it is brave and worthy of admiration to ask me or somebody else for help. First of all, you have to consult/sort out your feelings. Do you still love your wife? You married her, but do you still love her?
Another very important question you have to ask yourself is if you can still trust in her?! Confidence is an important thing in a relationship. Or should I say, it is the most important thing ever! If you cannot trust your partner, there is little chance for a real relationship. Trust is the foundation of every human relationship.
You have find the answers by yourself, but if you answer one of the questions with no, you have to decide if you can give her a second chance.
Another important point you have to think about is the child. Do you want to be a father for him or her? If you give your wife a second chance, this child will be part of the family and - even more importantly - you will be his or her father. This will only be possible if you are able to love the child for your whole life. I think you are a strong person and you can manage to do this. But do not repeat your wife's mistake. The child is entitled to grow up with the truth. Be fair to this child whatever you decide. Whatever you will do, do it with all your heart. Believe in yourself, you will make the right decision.
Abby

Sehr schön, schnief!

Grüße
Duckduck

[Lala007]

Oh, super!
So klingt es doch gleich noch viel schöner!
Vielen Dank, das war mich echt eine Hilfe.

[Lala007]

...hauptsache ich benutz im Englischforum erstmal falsches Deutsch...

Das war für mich echt eine Hilfe.